Is it a good idea to date a player?

It's a great idea to date players--if you're looking for herpes, a broken heart, and an emotional attachment to a guy that you should never marry. To date such man is like training you for divorce. You create a pattern of bonding and breaking, instead of making wise choices by entering good relationships. Date a player, and you will get played. End of story.

A lot of girls date players and try to please them for the sake of winning their respect. But the girls never get respected. After all, men only respect women who are not afraid to have standards.

Nobody wants to be rejected, but when a girl lacks a backbone, here's what happens: She might cling to an unfaithful guy, and justify it by saying, "I'm just a really forgiving person." Or, she'll say "I just really like to make him happy" when she's giving a guy sexual stuff in order to keep him so she can satisfy her emotional needs to have someone around for Valentine's Day.

But when a girl is desperate, she'll assume that having a jerk is better than having no guy at all. It's so sad, because she deserves something so much better.